I used to be really big on goal setting at the start of the year, but I haven’t really felt the urge this year. Maybe I will write some goals once I can sink my teeth into the year a bit more. Right now, I’m still wrapping my mind around everything that happened in 2013. It was a year full of challenges, one I’m happy to learn from and put in my back pocket. There are a few big plans on the agenda for this year, so I think if I can make it through those I will consider it a success. The rest will fall into place, I’m sure!
I really like the idea of picking a mantra (or two) for the year. Have you done this before? Two of mine this year are:
To be knocked forward (instead of knocked down) by the challenges I face.
To make choices that are love-based, rather than fear-based.
How many times do you make choices that are based out of fear, rather than love? I do it much more than I would like. It’s something that can happen on autopilot after a while, like a knee-jerk reaction, and I don’t even realize that fear is behind the decision unless I take an honest look at it. It’s so easy to tell myself that I’m not good enough to do x, y, or z, to make a snap judgment about someone or something because it stirs up negative feelings, or to assume my writing or thoughts aren’t really important enough to share. All of these are fear-based. Luckily, Eric has a built-in fear detector and he often calls me out on it. Love is totally not blind; it’s honest in the best way possible…even if it hurts to hear the truth. We all need a human bullshit detector in our lives.
So, I’m thinking if I make choices out of love rather than fear the doors start opening and new possibilities emerge. Suddenly, the new person I met is open to my friendship just as much as I am, that new business venture I wasn’t going to do is now an exciting (even though scary) possibility, and the times I’m asked to put myself out there and risk failure don’t seem quite as bad. Fear closes us down and shut-outs love, or any remote possibility of love. Fear convinces us that we can predict the future (and it often turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy) when really, we can’t.
Here’s the plan. The next time I find myself making a decision out of fear, I’m going to try to do the opposite and see what happens. Obviously, this doesn’t apply to all of life’s situations (after all, sometimes fear or getting a “bad feeling” about something is a good thing), but hopefully this will help to keep in mind. I’ve already put it into practice a few times this year and so far, so good.
Try it for yourself. You just might do the unthinkable in 2014!
Luxurious Dairy-Free Hot Cocoa
Yield
6-7 (125 ml) glasses
Soak time
1 hour or overnight
Prep time
Cook time
Total time
Sometimes we just need a little hot cocoa to pass the long, cold days of January. This is the perfect, all-natural drink to warm you up on a cold day. Made with soaked cashews, it's super creamy and thick all without a hint of dairy. It's very lightly sweetened with dark chocolate flavour. Add it to your Valentine's Day menu for a decadent drink option! This recipe is adapted from Anthropologie.
Ingredients
- 1 cup raw cashews, soaked
- 1 large Medjool date, pitted and soaked
- 3 cups water
- 3 tablespoons pure maple syrup or agave (or to taste)
- 1/4 cup cocoa powder
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- 1/4 teaspoon fine grain sea salt, or to taste
- 1-ounce dark chocolate (I used Trader Joe's 72%)
Directions
- Soak cashews and pitted date in a bowl of water for at least 1 hour, preferable overnight. After soaking, drain and rinse well.
- Place cashews and date into a blender along with the water, sweetener, cocoa powder, vanilla, and salt. Blend on the highest speed until super smooth.
- Transfer to a medium pot and add the chocolate. Heat until the chocolate is melted and it's hot enough to your liking. It will thicken up a bit. Stir to combine. Be careful not to burn the bottom. Remove pot from heat.
- Serve & enjoy with some shaved chocolate on top.
- Store leftovers in the fridge and reheat on the stove top. You can also enjoy this chilled!
Tip:
Note: This hot cocoa thickens up substantially as it sits. Feel free to thin it out a bit with a splash of almond milk or water.
Nutrition Information
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You do realize that raw cashews are not real, right? There is no such thing as raw cashews. They are all pasteurized. Only difference is that they haven’t been roasted. They should be called unroasted cashews but, if they did that then the vendors would have to lower their prices.
Angela, I loved your post – I could have written it myself, it so closely resembles my own experience with the past year in particular. I have also decided to forego the usual resolutions and use the mantra “I am open in mind, body and spirit to all of life’s wonderful possibilities”. I don’t know what they are yet, but I know that they’re coming. I will also write down the 2 that you shared. I have only recently found your site and I have never posted to any website before but I have been inspired by your writing and the wonderful recipes that you share (the pink power smoothie is my absolute favourite so far). Thank you.
I LOVE this post Angela! There are truly only 2 energies in the world – love and fear – all emotion is really one of those 2 (ie – anger is ultimately fear). I too, need to be reminded to make choices out of love – not fear….especially lately :-(. You are a great inspiration in your honesty and your willingness to challenge your fears and doubts – thanks for sharing that with us.
I did not get the newsletter and would love to…not sure how I missed this but I ordered the book thru amazon – was I supposed to do something else? If there is any way I can subscribe now – let me know .
Have a great day :-)
Hi Angela! Quick question for you. What’s my best bet for making a dairy free beverage that doesn’t rely on a nut milk? I have a mild allergy towards almonds/cashews and don’t really like using them in recipes. I’ve tried other milks like rice and hemp, but they seem too watery. Any suggestions? I’m also allergic to soy.
Sorry to be such a difficult reader haha! I just really like your recipes. You’ve taken being a vegan to an entirely new level that I don’t think anyone ever imagined! You’ve also inspired my own food blog. Please, when you have a chance (I know you’re super busy) check out weretalkingaboutfood.com. It would mean SO much to have your support!
Best,
Taji Mortazavi
“To make choices that are love-based, rather than fear-based.”
Love this. If we could all try doing this more, the world would be a happier place =) I’ve been striving for this, but sometimes I get off track and kind of forget. This is a great reminder.
And the hot cocoa sounds amazing!
how long will leftovers last in the fridge?
Just wondering how long does this last in the fridge? Also can you freeze it?
I’m going to make this soon. I’m not a fan of dates, but it looks intriguing. I’ll let you know how it turns out.
Linda,
veganosity.com
Hmmm, how convenient. I have a cup of cashews soaking in my fridge right now…. lol
I’m hoping 2014 is the best year yet. I let 2013 just fly by and I don’t want that to happen with this year (with the exception of this winter shit. I can’t bare to leave the house when it’s -26C!!!! – and that’s reason enough to make this cocoa!)
Hi I am wondering where one can get the glasses you show in this post? They are gorgeous!
Oh My Word! I’m drooling over this one! :)
Hi Angela,
This hot cocoa recipe looks amazing! I’ll be trying it out for sure.
I just discovered your blog this week. I love what you had to say about making decisions based on love rather than fear. It’s amazing how often I discover that my fears are based on assumptions and in some cases untruth. Love is so much better than fear. Thanks for sharing!
This year I am making a renewed commitment to reclaim my health and of course a huge part of that is changing what I eat. I’ve already made a couple of your recipes with success. They not only turned out, but exceeded my expectations! Thank you for putting together such a wonderful blog. I feel like I have found a friend to help me get back on track.
Best to you in 2014!
Hi Mary Ellen, Thank you for your lovely comment! I’m so happy you are enjoying the blog & the recipes so far. :) All the best to you in 2014!
Well first of all I want to say I LOVE your website and recipies!!
This recipie was not one of my favorites, however. When I made this it turned out grittier than I expected. I have a weird texture thing and I couldn’t get over the texture of this (to my disappointment). I wondered if the grittiness was there with yours (or anyone reading this that has made this)? Or maybe it was my cheap blender…?? Just curious..
Anyway, I think I will try to strain this with clean pantyhose so I won’t have to contend with the texture, then it will be awesome!!
Loved your thoughts behind your mantra’s..interesting take on facing one’s fears. Will try that in the future. Great site and you always do a terrific job with your writing.
While I’m all for taking the occassional drink of chocolate, I’ve yet to figure out why people have an aversion to using milk or milk based chocolate? Unless they are lactose intollerant. Any thoughts?
Nice site by the way. Very well put together.
I like my hot chocolate HOT… So I boiled the mixture, and it became very thick. Kinda like a atole or champurado (thick Mexican beverage). However, the left over I left in the pot and put in fridge overnight…. Next day AMAZING chocolate pudding. Thanks Angela
Hi,
I just read your Mantras for 2014 and thought that you might be interested in this?
mentorschannel.com/AriannaHuffington/OnBecomingFearless/LandingPage/1410/?aff_id=1430&off_id=40
It starts today.
PS. Congrats on the Baby! :)
Hi Angela!!
I’d Love to try a vegan cocoa, but I hate cashews…..could I make this recipe with almond milk or it is not thick enough?
I love this idea! Can i use non-dairy milk instead of the water to blend it?
yes you sure can :)
I didn’t make the hot chocolate although it sounds pretty delicious. I don’t usually read bloggers pre recipe writings, however today I did. And I just want to thank you for inspiring me to make decisions based on love rather than fear. Thank you for sharing your love for healthy food and yourself. I’m going to make some hot chocolate now :)