
I used to be really big on goal setting at the start of the year, but I haven’t really felt the urge this year. Maybe I will write some goals once I can sink my teeth into the year a bit more. Right now, I’m still wrapping my mind around everything that happened in 2013. It was a year full of challenges, one I’m happy to learn from and put in my back pocket. There are a few big plans on the agenda for this year, so I think if I can make it through those I will consider it a success. The rest will fall into place, I’m sure!
I really like the idea of picking a mantra (or two) for the year. Have you done this before? Two of mine this year are:
To be knocked forward (instead of knocked down) by the challenges I face.
To make choices that are love-based, rather than fear-based.
How many times do you make choices that are based out of fear, rather than love? I do it much more than I would like. It’s something that can happen on autopilot after a while, like a knee-jerk reaction, and I don’t even realize that fear is behind the decision unless I take an honest look at it. It’s so easy to tell myself that I’m not good enough to do x, y, or z, to make a snap judgment about someone or something because it stirs up negative feelings, or to assume my writing or thoughts aren’t really important enough to share. All of these are fear-based. Luckily, Eric has a built-in fear detector and he often calls me out on it. Love is totally not blind; it’s honest in the best way possible…even if it hurts to hear the truth. We all need a human bullshit detector in our lives.
So, I’m thinking if I make choices out of love rather than fear the doors start opening and new possibilities emerge. Suddenly, the new person I met is open to my friendship just as much as I am, that new business venture I wasn’t going to do is now an exciting (even though scary) possibility, and the times I’m asked to put myself out there and risk failure don’t seem quite as bad. Fear closes us down and shut-outs love, or any remote possibility of love. Fear convinces us that we can predict the future (and it often turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy) when really, we can’t.
Here’s the plan. The next time I find myself making a decision out of fear, I’m going to try to do the opposite and see what happens. Obviously, this doesn’t apply to all of life’s situations (after all, sometimes fear or getting a “bad feeling” about something is a good thing), but hopefully this will help to keep in mind. I’ve already put it into practice a few times this year and so far, so good.
Try it for yourself. You just might do the unthinkable in 2014!


Luxurious Dairy-Free Hot Cocoa

Yield
6-7 (125 ml) glasses
Soak time
1 hour or overnight
Prep time
Cook time
Total time
Sometimes we just need a little hot cocoa to pass the long, cold days of January. This is the perfect, all-natural drink to warm you up on a cold day. Made with soaked cashews, it's super creamy and thick all without a hint of dairy. It's very lightly sweetened with dark chocolate flavour. Add it to your Valentine's Day menu for a decadent drink option! This recipe is adapted from Anthropologie.
Ingredients
- 1 cup raw cashews, soaked
- 1 large Medjool date, pitted and soaked
- 3 cups water
- 3 tablespoons pure maple syrup or agave (or to taste)
- 1/4 cup cocoa powder
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- 1/4 teaspoon fine grain sea salt, or to taste
- 1-ounce dark chocolate (I used Trader Joe's 72%)
Directions
- Soak cashews and pitted date in a bowl of water for at least 1 hour, preferable overnight. After soaking, drain and rinse well.
- Place cashews and date into a blender along with the water, sweetener, cocoa powder, vanilla, and salt. Blend on the highest speed until super smooth.
- Transfer to a medium pot and add the chocolate. Heat until the chocolate is melted and it's hot enough to your liking. It will thicken up a bit. Stir to combine. Be careful not to burn the bottom. Remove pot from heat.
- Serve & enjoy with some shaved chocolate on top.
- Store leftovers in the fridge and reheat on the stove top. You can also enjoy this chilled!
Tip:
Note: This hot cocoa thickens up substantially as it sits. Feel free to thin it out a bit with a splash of almond milk or water.
Nutrition Information
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PS- I sent out the first OSG cookbook newsletter last Friday! If you didn’t get it and you are a confirmed subscriber, please check your spam folder as some of you mentioned you found it in there. Another reader mentions if you have Gmail to look in the “promotions” or “social” folders for it.
Love this post Angela! You definitely gave fear the middle finger just by being so open and willing to share your feelings with everyone. You have been one of my favorite blogs for a while, and I come here for the awesome recipes, but I have to say your writing just keeps getting better and better too. Thanks for the inspiration and know your ideas and thoughts ARE important enough to share, and strike a cord with many others.
Thank you Mindy, how sweet of you to say! Thanks for reading :)
I totally love you. I am pregnant and have been craving hot chocolate, but I am lactose intolerant. Cannot wait to make this!
Thank you for the reminder to choose love instead of fear- I needed that! And for the comfort of hot cocoa! Happy new year!
could you just add the chocolate directly to the vita and blend until heated? would it melt it up do you think?
This has inspired me to craft a nutfree version! I too found your message in my spam folder…often any content with the word “spam” tends to go right there…
I love how honest you are on your blog. Its the reason why I enjoy it so much.
That’s a great idea (having a mantra each year)!
I have a word each year, 2014’s word is “connect” I want to have a mind and body connection so I also find love in everything.
Last year my word was authentic and that helped me a lot! I did the things I wanted to do and said no first the first time for things I didn’t want to do. Its an amazing feeling to have enough self love to not feel guilty about your decisions.
Just what I needed! It’s gloomy and raining outside, and my thermostat tells me it’s 13.7ºC inside the house (!!!) So I just went back to bed to cuddle with my cat and work on my laptop from there. I might get up to make this hot cocoa when my stomach starts growling.
I’m subscribed and just checked my spam folder but the newsletter isn’t there. Could you try sending it out again, please?
Angela, –Thanks for being so transparent. Your insights are wise, your food tastes delicious… what a gem to find on the web! It’s been wonderful following your articles and fail-proof recipes!
Hi. I did not get the cookbook email either.
Thanks,
Laura
I am going to try this hot chocolate right away! It looks delicious!
PS:can I ask where can I get that beautiful glass?
Thank you!
C.
It’s from Anthro :) enjoy!
I like your mantras – they seem more doable than a ‘set’ resolution that one either accomplishes or does not.
You’ve accomplished a lot by what I’ve read so far, so it was a surprise to read that you are fear-based. It IS important to move past the fears, and it must help to have a built-in fear detector!
:)
Thanks for always being such a inspiring inspiration and sharing all your wonderful wisdom and words of advice!! On top of great recipes….you’ve really got it going on girl!! Keep up the awesome work.
YES! I’ve been trying and trying to come up with an adequate hot cocoa recipe- and have simply failed. Can’t wait to try this!
This looks delicious! :)
Thanks for another great recipe Angela! I just finished reading “Last Dance at Jitterbug Lounge” by Pamela Morsi. Here is a quote from it that I think you will like… “That’s the secret, (to life) you know, to recognize the best times when you’re living them and to have the confidence that the worst times will disappear just as quickly.”
Such as great post! I’m curious and excited about your new business venture. (I selfishly hope it’s a vegan restaurant because I would be a regular!)
Hot chocolate is my favourite way to have chocolate -this looks seriously decadent!
And I’m looking forward to getting my hands on your cookbook this year (at last!). It’s pre-ordered and I’m waiting patiently :)
This looks so yummy ! Will you be posting the banana bread recipe that you posted photos of on Instagram ? I’m really wanting to give it a shot and this would go nicely with it.
This was beautifully written. I think we all have made decisions out of fear. This recipe looks delicious. I will be trying it out this week!
I LOVE the idea of taking fear out of my decisions. That is something I want to practice this year!
Oooh girl!! This looks so good!!