Hello!
Last night Eric and I went out for his birthday. Here we are prior to leaving for a late dinner. Do you notice a certain shirt I am wearing?? Yup, that is the same flower shirt I was thinking of buying a while back (remember back in March when I brought you into the change room with me?). I actually found it on the sale rack 75% off the other week!!!! :) Sometimes it pays to wait.
I ended up taking him to a place called Oliver and Bonacini. We had never been there before, and in the spirit of trying new restaurants, I booked us a reservation.
Little did we know we were not going to have a good experience at this restaurant! :(
To our disappointment, the patio was full so we opted for a booth in the bar area.
Decisions, decisions…
They brought us bread to the table, which I let Eric have (he was starving and about to chew his arm off!).
I ordered 6oz. of Sauvignon Blanc and Eric a beer.
Then it came time to order our apps and main course and this is where the fun started.
I asked the waiter if the vegetarian plate could be made vegan (there was some soufflé in it with egg whites) and he said he would check with the chef. So he came back and told me that the chef could prepare me a vegan plate and that it would be a ‘surprise’. I was like, sure…no problem! Sometimes I like when chef’s can just bring our their skills and whip up something really cool.
And then the waiter starts asking me questions about being a vegan. He goes, “Yea I have two friends that are vegan. You know, you should be a vegetarian but not a vegan. My friends started to waste away from being vegan. You can be a vegetarian, but you just shouldn’t be a vegan. It’s just not good.”
I know, right? What does someone say to that?
I said that while it is challenging it can be done properly is one is aware of what their body needs. I also said that vegetarians can be unhealthy too if they are not getting an adequate diet. I really had to bite my tongue though because I wanted to tell this guy, a la Stephanie Tanner, HOW RUDE! I mean how can you be a waiter and tell someone that how they are eating is WRONG? I was so miffed that someone could be so ignorant!
He went on and on too! Like this conversation didn’t end.
Oh and then he got on about the honey part. He goes, ‘Oh honey, I just don’t understand. It’s honey, come on!’
Obviously, I know that many people don’t have issues with honey or understand why that it isn’t vegan. I was like that too when I first started out. And then I made Glo Bakery completely vegan by removing the honey from all products. It doesn’t bother me that this waiter has a personal issue with veganism, what bothered me is that he was completely rude to me and left a very bad taste in my mouth, especially on an occasion that was so happy and celebratory. I just brushed it off and we carried on with dinner and just ignored the jerk.
My salad was nothing special. Spinach and mushrooms with vinaigrette.
Eric had Caesar salad that he said was good:
Then my surprise vegan platter came out and I will admit it was pretty interesting…
- Watermelon and tomatoes in a vinagrette
- EXTREMELY garlicky hummus on bread
- Vegetables
- White bean puree croquettes
- White rice (in back left)
Where do I start? First I will voice a couple complaints:
- The vegetables were dripping in oil
- The food was heavily salted (I mean heavily)
- The croquettes were deep fried
It bothers me when chef’s think that they need to douse vegetables in oil and salt to make them taste good. I don’t know about you, but if I was cooking for a vegan, I probably wouldn’t deep fry anything either.
The hummus bread had huge chunks of garlic in it. Way too much garlic. I felt like I was fuming after one bite! I ate half the bread, all the rice, all the vegetables, 2 croquettes, and all the watermelon and tomatoes. I was stuffed at the end. :)
Eric had a lamb burger and fries…
Eric didn’t like the burger and he said the fries were really salty (I tried one and they were, much like my food).
All and all, it was a really disappointing experience. Don’t you just hate when you take someone out for a special dinner and it is a flop?? I felt so bad!!!
We made the best of it though…
After dinner, Eric dragged me to see GI Joe for a late show at 10:20pm. Let me just be brief and say this- it is 2 hours of my life that I will never ever get back. ;) Horrible. The acting, the cinematography, the script. Everything. Dear God.
And then on the highway on the way home, we got stuck in traffic on the 401 for 40 minutes! So we didn’t get home until 1am. I reclined my chair as I was so tired.
It was sort of just ‘one of those nights’, ya know? I still feel so badly because I feel like Eric didn’t have a good birthday. :(
I tried to make the best of it by being goofy and silly after dinner though…
Sadly, this restaurant experience reminded us why we don’t go out to eat. It is expensive and we can often make much better food at home for so much less. Live and learn I guess!
I am sorry for the downer post guys! I would never hide my true feelings on this blog though. And I would never pretend that everything is fine and dandy when it was not.
What you see is what you get! Bad experiences happen to the best of us, right?!
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This morning Eric’s mom is working on the alterations for my bridesmaid dress. Let’s hope we get this thing fitting a bit better!
Off to bake…
Sorry that the dinner wasn’t what you had hoped! Sounds like it was still a special date night though. My boyfriend hates eating out, for the same reason that you guys usually don’t – we can cook more exciting things at home, for less money and with more love in the recipe :-)
And LOL Zak wants to go see GI Joe with me too… now I know to talk him outta that one! Haha!
Aw, that’s really unfortunate! I’m sorry you had a less than stellar experience… that waiter was totally out of line and generally horrible at his job! Good for you for trying to make the best of it. And you know what? I bet that you and Eric will remember this particular birthday flop years down the road, and it’ll probably seem more comical then! Well, except for Mr. Rudewaiterface. That’s just, well, rude!
Ah that is too bad!! I always get myself stressed out about my boyfriend’s birthday because I want everything to be perfect! Through your blog posts and actions throughout the day (and the whole year, I’m sure), Eric knows how loved he is! You could always do a “do over” and make him a nice home-cooked birthday meal – no rude waiters invited :)
That’s too bad that dinner wasn’t a success! I always have a huge anxiety attack when we go out to dinner (well, I’ve only been out once since being vegan, but my sister invited us out tonight for her birthday and I’m freaking out already). I do not live in a vegan-friendly town by any means. I would rather just stay home and cook something delicious so I will know every ingredient! I just get so skeptical that the restaurant staff won’t know what vegan means and I’ll eat something that I don’t want to! Why does it have to be so hard?
That is so annoying going out and not having it go as you would have liked. I was going to warn you about the GI movie…but I thought ‘I don’t know what she likes, maybe she’ll like it’…well…
However, you got to spend time with someone that you love..and he is one lucky guy.
haha Trust me I read all the bad reviews about GI Joe (And Eric too), but he was set on seeing it regardless since he grew up watching it as a kid. I knew I was ‘in for it’…but birthday boy decides! lol
aw, I hate when that happens! Glad you two made the most of it – the best thing is that you got to spend his birthday together. AND those pancakes sure looked good! at least you started the day off on a good note :)
That really sucks… I really don’t like rude servers – it can put a downer on the evening. James used to be a server, so he’s even more critical of them – we’ve only had a few bad ones – one girl who actually pulled up a chair and SAT with us during dinner — we had to request some privacy. UNBELIEVABLE!!!
I also don’t enjoy salty foods or deep fried foods – it just ruins what could otherwise be a healthy, nourishing meal! I think some chefs think that vegetables are boring and they have to “jazz them up” by drenching them in butter or oil. Yuck.
I’m sure Eric loved just being with you — he seems like such a happy person anyway, and you two look like you have tons of fun together. It’s nice :-)
PS: LOVE your shirt. Where did you get it?
Aw, I’m so sorry this was such a lowsy experience! Poor Eric on his birthday! But at least he got the company of his awesome wife, right??
I honestly can’t believe that waiter! That’s unbelieveable!
Even though your birthday outing was sort of a flop, the post where he celebrated with friends and ate pancakes and whatnot – that sounded like it went over great! So while a mixed bag, the birthday doesn’t sound like a total flop, and hey – who gets to have reasons their spouse loves them broadcast on a well-known blog for their birthday?
vegan pro tip: when I go out to eat, especially with omnis, I usually go Asian. (Well, except Indian. I’ve had a couple positive vegan Indian experiences, but for the most part, I’m pretty convinced I keep getting served milk. Pacific Island food, on the other hand: sooooo vegan-friendly.) Mediterranian is usually pretty vegan-friendly, too!
Oh no!!!! Grr- how rude!!! Sometimes you just have to make the best of such things and you did!
I hope you did not give the waiter a big tip! Sometimes people are just downright rude, maybe thinking that they are doing you a favor by talking up a storm about something they think they are knowledgeable about.
About two years ago, there was an article in the Washington Post Food section that basically said, if you want to eat healthy, you have to cook it yourself!!! I find it so disturbing that restaurants nowadays still serve unhealthy food, even when you order something that seems “healthy” or vegan.
That’s too bad about the restaurant. First of all, the waiter was completely out of line. And it’s so true, a lot of the time going out is just not worth it! If I were you I would call the manager to tell them about the waiter. At least you made the best out of the night! And you looked great :)
You win some, you lose some.
Long ago in our dating lives, we were celebrating an anniversary and we went out to a fancy restaurant for the first time ever. We even had to buy my now hubby a tie because he didn’t own one.
We were stuck for an HOUR in traffic. Lost our reservations when we got there and the place was packed.
Finally sat down to eat, the food was in very small portions and the hubby didn’t like it.
Went to the bathroom to change afterwards (it was winter and we wanted to see the light display in the huge garden out back) and I DROPPED my purse (includes ID, money, camera, and cell phone) all in the TOILET!!!! I had to fish em out with my hand. Camera no longer worked and I had no pics of our special evening. Once I finally got out of the bathroom, we started to walk around the gardens and we said to eachother “You know, this fancy stuff isn’t working out for us, let’s go to Dairy Queen for dessert.” And we went off to get ice cream. Much better.
So ya, you win some. you lose some.
Ugh that is really too bad about the waiter (and that the food wasn’t very good). I probably would have said something to the manager, I’m sure you aren’t the first person he’s been rude to.
On the plus side you looked amazing, I love the outfit. :)
After being a server for many years, I can not believe the guy said that to you! I would sometimes wonder about special requests (now I know more about nutrition and special needs and wouldn’t think twice), but would never make comments like that or tell someone they are wrong.
We go out to eat less and less these days, too. It’s true – you can never really be sure what you are getting unless you make it yourself.
Sorry the birthday night was less then stellar :(
That waiter sucks! You definitely should have pulled out a “How RUDE!”
sorry it didn’t go as planned. At least now you know you guys have it right with cooking in and saving money!:D
Ugh, so sorry about your restaurant experience! Happy belated birthday to Eric…I’m sure he was very happy that you put so much time into making his day special, even if the experience and food was not-so-hot. Thanks for the heads up on G.I. Joe – I’m going to avoid that one at all costs!
I always knew what you see is what you get ;) That’s why I love ya!
I think you should send them an email about the experience. Their website has contact information. If you found the food too salty, I’m sure others do too…but mostly, that is terrible service. Yes, waiters are people and they have opinions, but at my job, I don’t put my opinion into what I’m writing, so they shouldn’t be lecturing customers about what they are eating. I am a firm believer in giving companies feedback (good and bad) and this one definitely deserves a little feedback!
Sorry his birthday didn’t turn out how you hoped!
So sorry you both had such a bad experience on such a special day! Glad you stayed on a positive note and could spend some time together!
Happy days!
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