According to some psychology research, adults are supposed to be better than children at postponing gratification if they believe that the long term pay off will be higher. As an example, when a child is asked to chose between a $10 bill today or a $20 bill a week later, the child will often chose the $10 bill today (immediate gratification), whereas an adult would likely chose a $20 bill a week later (delayed gratification).
Many of us make choices everyday that might not provide immediate gratification because we know there will be a payoff in the future. For example, we may workout even though it might not make us immediately happy because we know that there will be a benefit in the future. We chose healthy food even though we might want something unhealthy because we think about how we might feel in the future. We might invest money into a RRSP even though we want to shop til we drop because we think it will pay off down the road.
Obviously, it can be perfectly normal to live in the present moment and want instant gratification too (you can fill in the blank here!), but generally speaking, our ability to delay gratification ameliorates with age.
And this is my long-winded way of leading into today’s post on renovations!
Eric and I recently delayed our gratification (yes, I’m still talking about renos!) when we decided to give up a vacation in order to pay for our dining room renovation. We postponed our immediate happiness for something that we thought would give us happiness down the road. And, damn, that is hard to do sometimes…even as an adult! But now that it is all said and done, we are both really proud of our hard work and we are happy that we did it. We’ll have to catch up with a vacation at a later date!
For 2 weeks (a week longer than planned) our house was in a disaster for our dining room renovation. Since we bought the house at the end of 2008, we have renovated the following:
- family room
- entry way
- upstairs hallway
- master bedroom
- master closet
- Living room (didn’t finish)
- and now the dining room
Our plan is to tackle our renovation projects little by little as we can afford it…and we will be DIY’ing to save as much money as possible.
This is what 2 years of renovations (a little at a time) look like! The biggest lesson we have learned throughout it all?
However much time you think it will take to do a project, double it!
Family room BEFORE:
That wall paper was tough to remove because it had little pieces of wood all through it. It took us weeks to remove it and clean off all the glue!
My brother Chris (he’s a contractor/firefighter) and friend Jay helped us with the electrical work in the family room. It is always wise to have a professional help with electrical work!
Family Room AFTER:
We purchased the sectional couch off Craigslist. We got a great deal and it was in mint condition when we bought it. I love Craigslist sometimes. It can be hard to find a ‘diamond in the rough’ but when you do, you score big!
After the family room, we stripped all the wallpaper in the living room and then primed it.
Living room BEFORE:
After stripping boxes and wallpaper:
That is as far as we got with the living room. We are not done though…more on that below.
Upstairs hallway and Master Bedroom:
Hallway Before (this was after we stripped the pink and purple wallpaper off the wainscoting)
Eric installed hardwood flooring in our bedroom and in the hallway. Initially, this was a surprise for me while I was away (he planned on finishing it in a week) and it ended up taking 2 and a half months!!! LOL…I can laugh about it now, I guess.
We also painted everything.
Our bedroom after painting:
Master bedroom After:
As you may have noticed we have no wall art. Rome was not built in a day! ;) Eric also refuses to let me put up the Ikea prints from University, haha.
Now onto the dining room…
Dining Room before:
[Is there any way we can salvage the chandelier or turn it into something else?? Crystal Jewelry, perhaps!]
The first thing we did was shave the popcorn ceiling and remove the box trim.
Sand everything down, wash glue off walls a million times, etc. Then prime x2.
This wood trim was the worst to paint because it was really hard to get into the grooves and the paint dripped a lot. Our arms screamed in pain! It was like a 10 hour Body Pump Class that focused only on the arms.
After priming, it was time to paint the trim. We painted 2 coats of primer on the trim, followed by two coats of the actual paint. It was very tedious work, but thank goodness for music and beer!!
We had a lot of painting dance parties singing Lady Gaga and Rihanna while dangling off ladders. Lots of beer was involved.
And then we painted the pop of colour. Did anyone notice the orange paint in this pic that I posted last week? It was a sneak peak! I was wondering if any of you would catch the orange…
We chose a bright shade of orange called Carved Pumpkin by Para Paint. We got the sample matched to get a low VOC paint by Sherwin Williams. The wall needed THREE coats.
We love how fresh the orange is….it makes me happy just walking by this room!
We have wanted orange in the dining room since we moved in and it was so cool to finally see it happen. We painted all the other rooms neutral colours, but we are truly bold colour people at heart. It is so much more fun!
The wainscoting on the bottom helps balance out bold colours, so it is not overwhelming.
I think the dining room is a room that you can ‘go wild’ with and experiment!
After painting the orange, we installed the chair rail (very scary because it has to be perfectly level!), then the wainscoting, and finally the baseboard. Two coats of primer and two coats of the off-white paint. Triple Yawn.
Sure looks sharp though!
Do you like our black dining table?
I joke, I joke…that is my AM photography station.
Below is our actual dining table, a hand me down from our brother in law and sister in law, Dave and Ewa.
We have plans to refinish the dining table, but it won’t be for a while because we are taking a much needed break from renos. At some point, we will get some dining room furniture and a chandelier. Unfortunately, these things are really expensive so we might have to wait for a while. Finding a chandelier is really tough! We have been looking for a while now and we have no idea what will fit with our room (especially with not having much furniture).
We also installed a wardrobe during Reno-cation Week. I will not get into how painfully long this installation was! All I have to say is IKEA and you know what I mean.
After closet installation:
At some point, we want to buy a large antique mirror for the end of the closet.
I am donating this bin of clothing (a bonus of organizing clothing!). It also happens to be Sketchie’s new favourite sleep spot. ;)
I hope we don’t donate him too!
Oh and this weekend was not restful at all. We realized we still had a lot of reno loose ends to tie up, as well as cleaning the entire house! No peace for the wicked as my grammie always says.
It feels good to have the house back in order now.
Sketchie is certainly happy to have his dining room back.
Our next room to tackle?
The living room…
Our plans are to remove the ceiling and put up new drywall, remove the wooden green door frame, remove the pink carpet, and paint. We won’t be starting this for a while though! We are taking a much needed break. Doing renos on a tight budget is a bit difficult, but we are doing the best we can with what we have!
Maybe you can help us chose a colour for the living room? We want it to flow nicely into the dining room.