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As you may know, I have a wee obsession with quotes. ;) Here are some of my favourites. Check back often as I will be updating this page frequently.

“The work you do while you procrastinate is probably the work you should be doing for the rest of your life.” -Jessica Hische

“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life, is when men are afraid of the Light.”~Plato
The difference between great people and everyone else is that great people create their lives actively, while everyone else is created by their lives, passively waiting to see where life takes them next.  The difference between the two is the difference between living fully and just existing.  -Michael Gerber
“We are all functioning at a small fraction of our capacity to live fully in its total meaning of loving, caring, creating and adventuring. Consequently, the actual­izing of our potential can become the most exciting adventure of our lifetime.” – Herbert Ottto

“Beauty is how you feel inside and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.” ~Sophia Loren

“The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off.” ~Gloria Steinem, journalist and activist

“By letting go it all gets done.” ~Lao-Tzu

“It all comes back to just letting go with love. Just put the love in it. Whatever it is, and if you can’t put love in it, don’t do it!” ~Bhagava Das, spiritual guru

You can do anything, but not everything.”~David Allen

The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers. ~M. Scott Peck

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

“Age has given me what I was looking for my entire life- it gave me me. It provided me the time and experience and failures and triumphs and friends who helped me step into the shape that had been waiting for me all my life.” ~ Molly Ivins, writer

“No matter what happens, somebody will find a way to take it too seriously.” ~Unknown

“I think most of us become nicer as we get older, less judgmental, less full of certitude; life tends to knock a few corners of us as we go through. Cancer, divorce, teenagers, and other plagues make us give up on expecting ourselves – or life – to be perfect, which is a real relief.” ~Molly Ivins, writer

“I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.” ~Mark Twain

We learn something every day, and lots of times it’s that what we learned the day before was wrong.“~Bill Vaughan

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.”~Ambrose Redmoon

“Bow to your highest and holiest teacher, yourself.” ~Yoga instructor

Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you’ll be criticized anyway. You’ll be damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

“The richest man is not he who has the most, but he who needs the least.”~Unknown Author

One day my husband saw me take a green monster out of the fridge and drink it- he said “OMG you drink that stuff? I thought it was for cleaning!!” So needless to say -I have no tips on getting your hubby to drink one.”~Sminnick (OSG reader) :lol:

“Growth and self-transformation cannot be delegated.” ~ Lewis Mumford

“Whatever someone did to you in the past has no power over the present” ~Oprah

“I have created a life by stepping out of the box of people’s limitations. I call it zigging when others are zagging.” ~Oprah

“If we wait for the moment when everything, absolutely everything is ready, we shall never begin.”~ Ivan Turgenev

“If you had to identify, in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, and never will achieve its full potential, that word would be ‘meetings’.” ~Unknown

 “Sometimes you have to make your own opportunities and that’s why I’m on TV. I wasn’t going to sit around anymore, waiting patiently for the damn phone to ring. I had to create my own place- I’ve always done that.” ~ Bette Midler

“Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”
~Lao-Tze

“When I was young, I thought confidence could be earned with perfection. Now I know that you don’t earn it; you claim it. And you do that by loving the wacky, endlessly optimistic, enthusiastically uninhibited free spirit that is the essence of style, the quintessence of heart, and uniquely YOU.” ~ Cecelie Berry, writer

“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” ~John Quincy Adams

“It is part of the cure to wish to be cured.”~Normal Cousins

“Right now, make a list of what you admire about yourself- don’t stop until you’ve filled a page. Sit and relish each quality and accomplishment. When you remember how much you have to be proud of, you don’t need to envy others. Instead of wallowing in your jealousy, use your friends’ accomplishments as inspiration to pursue the life you want.” ~Phil McGraw

“Awake before the sun is risen, I call for my pen and papers and desk.” ~Christopher Smart

“It isn’t necessary to know exactly how your ideal life will look; you only have to know what feels better and what feels worse…Begin making choices based on what makes you feel freer and happier, rather than on how you think an ideal life should look. It’s the process of feeling our way toward happiness, not the realization of the Platonic ideal, that creates our best lives.” ~Martha Beck, life coach

“Many of us have spent a lifetime trying to be what we’re not, feeling lousy about ourselves when we fail, and sometimes when we succeed. We hide our differences when, by accepting and celebrating them, we could collaborate to make every effort more exciting, productive enjoyable, and powerful. Personally, I think we should start right now.” ~Martha Beck

“Try a thing you haven’t done three times. Once, to get over the fear of doing it. Twice, to learn how to do it. And a third time, to figure out whether you like it or not.“~ Virgil Garnett Thomson

“People believe themselves to be dependent on what happens for their happiness. They don’t realize that what happens is the most unstable thing in the universe.” ~Eckhart Tolle, spiritual teacher

“You never know what you can do before you try it. And each time you go out, it’s an experiment, a work in progress. You learn an awful lot about yourself- about your limits, your endurance, your capabilities…I think that everybody has a certain level of fear. The question is how we manage it. And I have managed to be able to control it enough in order to do my job.” ~Christiane Amanpour, international correspondent

“What we think, or what we know, or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do.“~John Ruskin

“Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass on a summer day listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is hardly a waste of time.” ~John Lubbock

“If it makes perfect sense to you, that means it won’t make any sense to anyone else.” ~DH

“If anything is worth trying at all, it’s worth trying at least 10 times.”
~Art Linkletter

“If you only do what you know you can do- you never do very much.” ~Tom Krause

“I have to exercise in the morning before my brain figures out what I’m doing.” ~Marsha Doble

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Unbearable Lightness quotes:

“Do I love myself the way I am? Yes. (Well, I’m working on it!) But that doesn’t mean I love my body just the way it is. People who recover from eating disorders can’t be expected to have higher standards than the rest of society, most of whom would like to alter a body part or two. The difference now is that I’m no longer willing to compromise my health to achieve that. I’m not even willing to compromise my happiness to achieve it, or for the thought of my thighs to take up valuable space in my mind. It’s just not that important.

“I’m very grateful for what [my body] does. I thank my thighs for being strong and allowing me to walk my dogs around my neighbourhood and ride my horses.”

“I find that if I can concentrate on getting better at something, rather than getting fitter or looking better, I accomplish all three things- the latter two being happy by-products of the original goal.”

“The fact that I stopped restricting food made it less appealing. I began tasting food and listening to my internal nutritionist as it told me that I truly wanted to eat a crispy salad rather than fries. When it told me that fries were what I was craving, it said, ‘Eat as many as you want knowing that you can always have them again tomorrow.’ So I’d eat just a few or I’d rat the whole damn serving until I couldn’t eat anything else on my plate.”

“I stopped weighing myself. I simply didn’t care about weight anymore because it was always a comfortable good weight for my body. As I listened to my internal nutritionist, I stopped wanting to eat eggs, meat, and dairy. While I have never felt more healthy and energized, the most important thing that happened to me when I stopped eating animals was a sense of connectedness. When I was suffering from an eating disorder, my life was solely about me. I was living through my ego. My decision not to eat animals anymore was paramount to my growth as a spiritual person. It made me feel like I was contributing to making the world better and that I was connected to everything around me. Healing comes from love. And loving every living thing in turn helps you love yourself.”

I made the mistake of thinking that what I look like is more important that who I am- that what I weigh is more important than what I think or what I do. I was ashamed of being gay, and so I only heard the voices that said that being gay is shameful.”

“Ellen taught me to not care about other people’s opinions. She taught me to be truthful. She taught me to be free. I began to live my life in love and complete acceptance. For the first time I had truly accepted myself.”

“I met Ellen when I was [at my heaviest] and she loved me. She didn’t see that I was heavy; she only saw the person inside. My two greatest fears, being fat and being gay, when realized, led to my greatest joy. It’s ironic, really, when all I’ve ever wanted is to be loved for my true self, and yet I tried so hard to present myself as anything other than who I am.”

My Favourite Eat Pray Love Quotes:

Quote 1:

“For years, I’d wished I could speak Italian- a language I find more beautiful than roses- but I could never make the practical justification for studying it…What was I going to do with Italian? It’s not like I was going to move there. It would be more practical to learn how to play the accordion. But why must everything have a practical application? I’d been such a diligent soldier for years- working, producing, never missing a deadline, etc. Is this lifetime supposed to be only about duty?…It’s not like I was saying at age 32, ‘I want to become the principal ballerina for the NYC ballet.” Studying a language is something you can actually do. So I signed up for classes at one of those continuing education places. My friends thought this was hilarious…But I loved it.” [Discussion found here]

Quote 2:

“It was in a bathtub back in New York, reading Italian words aloud from a dictionary, that I first started mending my soul. My life had gone to bits and I was so unrecognizable to myself that I probably couldn’t have picked me out from a police line-up. But I felt a glimmer of happiness when I started studying Italian, and when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt- this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty (and also your entitlement as a human being) to find something beautiful within life, no matter how slight.I came to Italy pinched and thin. I did not know yet what I deserved. I still maybe don’t know fully what I deserve. But I do know that I have collected myself of late- through the enjoyment of harmless pleasures- into somebody more intact. The easiest, most fundamentally human way to say it is that I have put on weight. I exist more now than I did four months ago. I will leave Italy noticeably bigger than when I arrived here. And I will leave with the hope and the expansion of one person- the magnification of one life- is indeed an act of worth in this world. Even if that life, just this one time, happens to be nobody’s but my own.” pp. 115 [Discussion found here]

Quote 3:

“She writes: “This is what I find myself writing to myself on the page: ‘I’m here. I love you. I don’t care if you need to stay up crying all night long. I will stay with you…There is nothing you can ever do to lose my love. I am stronger than Depression and I am braver than Loneliness and nothing will ever exhaust me.’Tonight, this strange interior gesture of friendship- the lending of a hand from me to myself- reminds me of something that happened to me in New York City. I walked into an office building and dashed into the elevator. As I rushed in, I caught an unexpected glimpse of myself in the mirror. In that moment my brain did an odd thing- it fired off this split-second message: ‘Hey! You know her! That’s a friend of yours!” And I actually ran forward toward my own reflection with a smile, ready to welcome that girl whose name I had lost but whose face was so familiar. In a flash instant, of course, I realized my mistake and laughed in embarrassment at my almost doglike confusion over how a mirror works. But for some reason that incident comes to mind again tonight during my sadness in Rome and I find myself writing this comforting reminder at the bottom of the page: Never forget that once upon a time, in an unguarded moment, you recognized yourself as a friend.” pp. 54 [Discussion found here]

Quote 4:

Elizabeth says: “There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under my jurisdiction…I can select what I eat and read and study. I can choose how I’m going to to view unfortunate circumstances in my life- whether I will see them as curses or opportunities (and on the occasions when I can’t rise  to the most optimistic viewpoint, because I’m feeling too damn sorry for myself, I can choose to keep trying to change my outlook). I can choose my words and the tone of my voice in which I speak to others.

And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.

This last concept is a radically new idea for me. Richard from Texas brought it to my attention recently when I was complaining about my inability to stop brooding. He said, ‘Groceries, you need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select what clothes you’re gonna wear everyday. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control. Drop everything else but that. Because if you can’t learn to master your thinking, you’re in deep trouble forever.”

On first glance, this seems a nearly impossible task. Control your thoughts? Instead of the other way around? But imagine if you could? This is not about repression or denial. Repression and denial set up elaborate games to pretend that negative thoughts and feeling are not occurring. What Richard is talking about is instead admitting to the existence of negative thoughts, understanding where they come from and why they arrived, and then- with great forgiveness and fortitude – dismissing them. This is a practice that fits hand in glove with any psychological work you do during therapy.

It’s a sacrifice to let them go of course. It’s a loss of old habits, comforting old grudges and familiar vignettes. Of course, this all takes practice and effort. It’s not a teaching that you can hear once and then expect to master it immediately. It’s constant vigilance and I want to do it. I need to do it for my strength.

So I’ve started being vigilant about watching my thoughts all day, and monitoring them. I repeat this vow about 700 times a day: “I will not harbor unhealthy thoughts anymore.” [p. 177-179] [Discussion found here]

Angela (Oh She Glows) May 8, 2010

LOL “If you had to identify, in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, and never will achieve its full potential, that word would be ‘meetings’.” ~Unknown

Violetta Dima August 15, 2010

Amazing quotes, Angela you are so inspiring. I start off every morning by reading through your web site because you motivate me to be a healthier, smarter, confident, more adventurous woman. Thanks.

Tory May 8, 2010

Angela,

These are all amazing quotes! Thanks for the collection :) I also love this one:

‘You can’t make footprints in the sands of time if you’re sitting on your butt. And who wants to make buttprints in the sands of time?’ ~Bob Moawad

I love how someone can say, “buttprints” and it be inspirational!

Keep ‘em coming girl!!

Tory (Vivacious L.I.F.E) May 8, 2010

Here is the website my husband and I have been working on:

http://www.vivacious-living.blogspot.com just in case you feel like checking it out…Please let me know what you think!

Bridget May 8, 2010

What fantastic quotes! They are so true! Here are some quotes I like:

“Even if I don’t reach any of my goals, I’ve gone higher than I would have if I hadn’t set any”
-Danielle Fotopoulos, soccer player

“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any”
-Alice Walker, author and poet

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched, but are felt in the heart”
-Helen Keller

“Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves”
-Carl Jung

Angela (Oh She Glows) May 8, 2010

Thanks love them!

Lynne May 9, 2010

Love the quotes. Some of my favourites are…

A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds. ~Francis Bacon
Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt. ~Shakespeare
I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened. ~Mark Twain.

Have a great day! :-)

Angela (Oh She Glows) May 13, 2010

looove all three of those!!

Danya May 14, 2010

Hello Angela,
I live by quotes! I feel like I have a quote for every situation that life throws at me :)

Here are two of my absolute favs…

“Courage does not always roar. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow.” – Unknown

And,

“Every morning in Africa, a gazelle wakes up. It knows it must outrun the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning in Africa, a lion wakes up. It knows it must run faster than the slowest gazelle, or it will starve. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a lion or gazelle – when the sun comes up, you’d better be running.” – Unknown

Anna May 28, 2010

i love this page! awesome idea. i started a collection of my own and nabbed a couple (here, http://summereighteen.blogspot.com/p/words.html) so i figured i’d tell you.

by the way angela, your blog is awesome and really added to the inspiration to start my own blog for this summer…so keep it up! (: plus you really inspire me to keep working out…even when i don’t reallllly feel like it. “well, angela is training for a triathlon. i’m just going to bike 5 miles. if she can do that, i can do this.”

Therese June 28, 2010

I have a tiny, low-traffic blog that my family reads, but you inspired me to add a quotes page and I thought you’d like to see it. I know a fellow quote-lover always appreciates new words of wisdom!

http://thereseandross.blogspot.com/p/favorite-quotes.html

Claire June 30, 2010

Hi! So I just stumbled upon your website this morning and I absolutely love it. I’m only fifteen years old. When I was 11 I struggled with anorexia and it stayed with me all throughout the year I was 12 and beyond. Well, even though I am clinically better now and not malnourished, sometimes these feelings of weighing too much and all the other emotions I faced a couple years ago resurface. I have been feeling not too hot lately. Actually, I found your website from searching “workout tips” on Google. I’m glad that you popped up because reading your site has just put some sense back into me. I love all of the quotes you put up and I can relate to you a little. I’m very proud of you and wish you the best! I just remembered what’s important to me and that how I look is really not important because it’s how I feel on the inside that makes me who I am. Thanks for helping me! Here are some of my favorite quotes I might as well throw in:
“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seuss
“Anything worth doing is worth doing well.” -I saw it on a fortune cookie haha
“Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.” -Ashley Smith
“Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire.” -Dale Carnegie
“Remember happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely on what you think.” -Dale Carnegie
“The person who seeks all their applause from outside has their happiness in another’s keeping.” -Dale Carnegie
“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” -Dale Carnegie
“Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else.” -Judy Garland

Emilie July 1, 2010

ahh i am obsessed with quotes too! every time i read/hear one i love, i HAVE to recopy it into my “quotes file” (hence my entire blog, haha). these are all great–thank you!

Jessica Sinclair July 18, 2010

Here are some that have grabbed me….and reminded me I am responsible for living in the now…

Girl, if you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer’s always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.”
Nora Roberts
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why it’s called the present! Unknown
“When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everyone will respect you.”
Unknown

Emma July 29, 2010

Thank you for sharing these with us Angela. I have an “inspiring quotations” doc on my laptop and I’ve just added a few to the collection :)
This one is my fave of your selection-
“Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass on a summer day listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is hardly a waste of time.” ~John Lubbock
xx

Molly July 29, 2010

I’ve read your blog for a while now and never saw this section. I adore quotes… They get me through things when I feel no one else understands, they put the right words in mouth when I can’t seem to find any. Thank you for these!check out my tab on my page http://www.givinganythingbutup.wordpress.com :)

xo Molly

TwoFeetFirst August 14, 2010

Love these quotes!!! Would love for you to check out http://www.twofeetfirst.com an insight into jumping into life after college with two feet first!

Erica August 26, 2010

A few favs:

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” Dr. Seuss

“You have a choice. You can throw in the towel, or you can use it to wipe the sweat off of your face.” Gatorade

‎”Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.” -Eleanor Roosevelt (this one is so true and spoke volumes to me when I lost a dear friend to cancer this year… she was only 43.)

Orla September 13, 2010

You had a quote in a post a while ago, but I can’t find it! :( It was something about seizing the day, the greatest tragedy would be to never try at all – if you know which one I mean can you please add it to this page? :D

Karen October 3, 2010

Thank you so much for having the Eat Pray Love quotes. Loved the movie and really need to see it again to get the full meaning of some things that were said. Your 4th quote was especially one spot I wanted to hear again. So glad I have had a chance to read it. There is so much meaning in what was said.

Katie October 19, 2010

I too love quotes – have a little book I write all my favorites in! Definitely copied some of yours into it.

Danielle October 28, 2010

“If you want something done, use your backbone not your wishbone”

Wonderful blog Angela, lots of great information and I am looking forward to making some of those yummy recipes!

Cheers
Danielle

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